

Walk into your next speed dating event feeling calm, confident, and ready.
Speed dating should feel exciting—not nerve-wracking. But let’s be real: most people show up anxious, overthinking, or unsure what to say.
That’s where I come in.
In just one session, I’ll help you:
✅ Ease the nerves — shift out of anxiety so you can actually enjoy the event
✅ Prepare great openers — no more awkward “uhh, what do I say?” moments
✅ Engage meaningfully — focus on connection instead of rehearsing lines in your head
✅ Boost your confidence — feel in control, no matter how many mini-dates you have aheadWhat past participants say
“I felt significantly more confident before the event. I had stronger ice-breaker questions ready, I stopped overthinking, and I was able to focus on connecting. It definitely calmed my nerves.”
What this isn’t
This isn’t about cheesy pickup tricks or magic formulas. I can’t make your soulmate appear on demand. What I can do is help you reframe how you show up—so you’re more open, authentic, and ready for love to find you.
Ready to feel at ease? Schedule a time below.
About Shaily
I’ve been a motivational cheerleader my whole life — the kind of person who helps others see their own beauty when they’re struggling or doubting themselves. That energy has carried into my work: for my entire adult career, I’ve been working in Jewish spaces, encouraging people to show up with confidence and connection.
I found love myself through a nonprofit, and it changed my life. When I met my husband, he had qualities I might have dismissed if I hadn’t kept an open mind. By giving myself that openness, I discovered something beautiful I never could have imagined. That experience drives me to help others relieve the stress of dating, open their minds to what really matters, and embrace the possibilities right in front of them.
Think of me as your friendship supplement — a hype person who helps you show up more confident, grounded, and open to love. I’m not a therapist, and I don’t pretend to be. In fact, I encourage people to have both — therapy for the deep work, and coaching with me for the practical pep and perspective that makes dating less overwhelming and more fun.
Book your session today and walk into your next speed dating night with confidence on your side.
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